<SEC-DOCUMENT>0001039828-13-000053.txt : 20130319
<SEC-HEADER>0001039828-13-000053.hdr.sgml : 20130319
<ACCEPTANCE-DATETIME>20130319124702
ACCESSION NUMBER:		0001039828-13-000053
CONFORMED SUBMISSION TYPE:	4
PUBLIC DOCUMENT COUNT:		1
CONFORMED PERIOD OF REPORT:	20130315
FILED AS OF DATE:		20130319
DATE AS OF CHANGE:		20130319

REPORTING-OWNER:	

	OWNER DATA:	
		COMPANY CONFORMED NAME:			Grensteiner Ronald James
		CENTRAL INDEX KEY:			0001468460

	FILING VALUES:
		FORM TYPE:		4
		SEC ACT:		1934 Act
		SEC FILE NUMBER:	001-31911
		FILM NUMBER:		13700763

	MAIL ADDRESS:	
		STREET 1:		5000 WESTOWN PARKWAY
		CITY:			WEST DES MOINES
		STATE:			IA
		ZIP:			50266

ISSUER:		

	COMPANY DATA:	
		COMPANY CONFORMED NAME:			AMERICAN EQUITY INVESTMENT LIFE HOLDING CO
		CENTRAL INDEX KEY:			0001039828
		STANDARD INDUSTRIAL CLASSIFICATION:	LIFE INSURANCE [6311]
		IRS NUMBER:				421447959
		STATE OF INCORPORATION:			IA
		FISCAL YEAR END:			1231

	BUSINESS ADDRESS:	
		STREET 1:		6000 WESTOWN PARKWAY
		CITY:			WEST DEMOINES
		STATE:			IA
		ZIP:			50266
		BUSINESS PHONE:		5152210002

	MAIL ADDRESS:	
		STREET 1:		6000 WESTOWN PARKWAY
		CITY:			WEST DES MOINES
		STATE:			IA
		ZIP:			50266
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